Did You Ask First?

Week 9: Helping Others

Did you ask first?
Proverbs 17: 8-9

Have you ever gotten a gift that was just ‘not you’? Feels awkward, doesn’t it? I mean, you are supposed to appreciate gifts, not feel guilty that you don’t like them. I remember a birthday present I received recently. I don’t eat sweets. I never have. But, for my last birthday, I got an expired box of candy.

If you want to help others don’t be afraid to ask God and them what would help. Respecting what others need and producing resources to meet that need promises reward.

I want you to practice being proactively gracious, today. Don’t make assumptions. Ask what people need. If you are married to them, I’ll give you permission not to demonstrate your total ignorance. So, remember some things they really love and graciously provide it for them.